Hi all, (Bert, this may be a good idea to hide behind the couch
).
I have been trying for a number of years to find the history of my wife's great grandfather, Clifford Smith. You may remember that he had 3 children by 3 different women, all called Alice (the mother, not the children!). Ancestry flagged up a match on my wife's tree, and I contacted the tree owner. It turns out that Walter William Smith, Clifford's son, had a daughter in 1944 who was already in my tree, but her husband was the man who is the tree owner that I contacted.
Walter William was divorced by his wife for cruelty, a trait he must have inherited from his father Clifford who was also a bully.
It turns out, according to the tree owner, that the 3 Alices were the same woman, who for whatever reason changed her surname on every one of her 3 children's birth certificates. This tree owner says that Clifford and Alice married in Southwark in July 1915, even though I can find no record of it. The 1911 census has them being married for 5 years, and again no record. Maybe they said they were married due to having 2 children by 1911.
Rumour has it that Alice ran off with a lodger in 1920 something. In 1920 she was living with Clifford at 23 Candia Street, according to the Electoral Register (presume the actual date would be 1919?). I'm hoping the 1921 census may shed some more light on that and them. Alice apparently left Clifford, with or without the lodger, due to cruelty and lived in the British Virgin Islands, and died age 103 and buried in London. More research needed.
The other spanner in the works is that the tree owner's wife, Walter's daughter, said that her father Walter was never forthcoming with anything, but did say that the elusive Clifford Smith was of French origin!! There was talk in the family of him changing his name, but we thought it was his forename. Maybe it was his surname that he changed to Smith
.
Back to the drawing board with a large glass of sustinance 
I think it's the date…
I think it's the date payment was made, if you look at other burials, the end number, 3 in Elizabeth's case is before the burial date of the 6th.
All the other burials seem to follow the same pattern, a day or so before the burial.
Gosh, never thought of that,…
Gosh, never thought of that, Bert!
I wonder if you could also help me with a query about Anfield Cemetery. I notice that graves in this cemetery are described as private, purchased and public. I was following up a 'purchased' grave and was surprised (and disappointed if I am honest) not to be able to find it under the transcripted graves so I guess it is not going to have a headstone - I can find the grave on the cemetery plan.
I can't find anything on google about 'purchased' graves so can anyone help and perhaps tell me if they were just peculiar to Anfield Cemetery or did they exist elsewhere too.
Thank you.
Glen
Hope this helps, they…
Hope this helps, they existed elsewhere, not just Anfield.
Also discussed here, public …
Also discussed here,
public & private graves (Family History Beginners Board) Page 1 RootsChat.Com
Also discussed here, public …
Also discussed here,
public & private graves (Family History Beginners Board) Page 1 RootsChat.Com
It seems to me that a…
It seems to me that a Private grave was owned in perpetuity, a purchased grave had a time limit on its ownership, set by cemetery or council.
The snippet from the Liverpool Mercury, 1865, throws another in to the mix, half purchased grave.
It appears that Half Graves…
It appears that Half Graves which I assume are Half Purchased Graves, are/were for children and cremated remains.
Thanks Bertieone, that's…
Thanks Bertieone, that's given us a good bit of research into the nature of graves.
Thanks, Bert - I've learned…
Thanks, Bert - I've learned a lot there. Reading between the lines, I guess there may have been something different in the Burial Deeds between a purchased and private grave. Perhaps with a purchased grave you were paying for one person to be buried there whereas a private grave might be accesible for other members of the family. What do you think? I think I may have read once (although goodness knows where!) that someone who bought a private grave had the right to be buried there - so presumably you could bury your spouse, grandparents etc in the knowledge you would also be buried in that grave when the time came. Does this ring any bells with anyone?
Also, I suppose someone might buy a grave - whether purchased or private - and then not have the money to erect a headstone. I have an ancestor buried in Anfield Cemetery in 1899 - burial record says it is a private grave but no inscription seems to be transcribed anywhere so I am guessing there is no headstone. I am coming over to Liverpool tomorrow for a 'graveyard trawl' but on this one I think I will just find an empty piece of grass, unfortunately.
Is there any way I could check on-line if anyone else is buried in this grave?
Glen
How I understand it is, the…
How I understand it is, the difference between private and purchased graves is determined by time allowed to own the plot. I haven't come across anything that suggests a purchased grave is only allowed one burial. Different size graves were purchased to hold X amount of bodies and the size would reflect on the price paid.
Headstones were very much reliable on the ability to pay for one, unfortunately out of reach for many.
Is there any way I could…
Not that I'm aware, other than trawl through the records and hopefully get lucky, any details?
I think there's a cemetery office who may help, I can't remember where, hopefully Mary will.
I think the office is at the…
I think the office is at the Allerton Cemetery. A posting on a Rootweb page from several years ago gave this as the telephone number for the Allerton office: 0151-233 3004. No idea if it's still the same.
Also, lots of good stuff here for Anfield: https://freepages.rootsweb.com/~ormandy/history/page2.html You need to click on the search button on the top bar and you can then do a look up on a name, get the section number and grave number then do a lookup within the relevant section to confirm if there's a monumental inscription or not. I believe you can also do a reverse lookup using the grave number in the main index which should tell you if anyone else is in the same grave. I know you can do that with the Toxteth Park index which is/was also run by Rob and Rose Anderson, but never tried it with the Anfield one
Also it might be worth checking this thread in the old forum: https://oldforum.lswlfhs.org.uk/viewtopic.php?f=14&t=5739
Allerton office: 0151-233…
More or less right, so far as I know the number is still the same but it's Allerton Cemetery Lodge, which is different to Allerton Cemetery.
Beware though that they used to charge £10 per cemetery per year for look ups, so if you don't know the names it could prove a costly business.
Thanks to everyone who has…
Thanks to everyone who has taken an interest in my recent questions - I feel a lot more knowledgeable now!
I have had a look at the Rob and Rose Anderson site mentioned by Andy but I think my stumbling block is that there is no headstone on the 1899 grave that I was interested in. It is definitely an approach I will bear in mind for future occasions though.
My paternal grandfather is buried with his sister and her husband in West Derby Cemetery and again there is no headstone yet I know of t least 2 other family mambers who are buried there and I will use the Allerton phone number to see if I have missed anyone.
Finally, just thought I would mention that I came over to Liverpool last week to take a look at some of the cemeteries that have come up in my recent research and that different members of the forum have given me information about. Visiting St Mary's Kirkdale was really nothing to write home about but I knew that from what forum members had told me. Shame though as I had about 6 close ancestors who were buried in the same grave there.
However, I found the St Mary's churchard near Alsop School really quite moving - thanks for your input on this, Mary. Needless to say I couldn't find any of 'my' graves (I was going back to the 1700s!) but to be in such a genuinely old graveyard where my ancestors would have stood, I found quite mind-blowing and would recommend a visit to any fellow family historians.
Thanks to all, as always.
Glen
So pleased you had a great…
So pleased you had a great research visit, I always feel very moved when I stand in a churchyard or cemetery, almost as if I am going to come across those relatives by chance.