Hello there.
I am looking for some help in understanding more about, possibly, the 'Liverpool way' of helping each other out and surviving. Contrary to popular historical retrospect, my X4 Gt Grandmother Ellen McGrady (nee Shevlin) has 4 children before marrying. She was born in Ireland and is found in Liverpool by the 1851 Census - living with her 'husband' Stephen McGrady. She dies age 29 in the Cholera outbreak and this ages her at 14 in 1851.
She marries in St Josephs in 1858. She has had James (b1851 - d1851) Mary Jane (b1853-d1853) Stephen (b1856-d1856) and Ellen (b1857-d?) and they have been baptised at St Augustine. Children post marriage are baptised here too. In the case of Mary Jane and Stephen, they are buried in St Anthony's.
The addresses stay consistent (Sherwood St) throughout their lives.
Her daughter Ellen Kennedy (nee McGrady) (my X3 Gt Grandmother) has 2 children out of wedlock - James (born in Workhouse 1874 but with address Sherwood St) and John 1877. She marries at St Albans in 1878, 5 months before daughter Mary Ellen is born...
It was always my understanding that children out of wedlock would be 'shunned', cast out of society, children given up etc. So I'd appreciate any thoughts here? Was it a case of 'we look after our own?'
Also, Ellen McGrady & Ellen Kennedy spend time in/out the Workhouse. How does it work? I notice on records it says 'informant' (though often illegible) and wards listed such as 'attic,' and 'cleaning' etc. They were sometimes on 'medical' or 'surgical' in one case. Again, I'd love some knowledge around the actual ins and outs. They have listed addresses when admitted and I always thought the Workhouse had the stigma of 'once in, never out?'
Any social historians out there with some knowledge who could educate me would be most welcomed! I feel like I'm not understanding the true picture of how my family survived.
Many thanks
Mx
Hi, I recently did some…
Hi,
I recently did some research on an Irish immigrant* family who settled in the Vauxhall district of Liverpool in the mid 1850s so I offer the following comments.
This family were not married when they arrived from Dublin although they already had a daughter (born in Dublin c 1855). I suspect they told everyone they were married, as the priest who baptised their second child in 1857 at Our Lady de La Salette in Eldon Place recorded them as married. In fact they were married in the Liverpool Register Office in November 1858 and don't appear to have had a church blessing for their marriage, which may indicate they didn't want anyone to know that they were not already married.
On the subject of workhouses, don't forget that the workhouse was also the local hospital for those who could not afford to pay for their treatment, so if the two Ellens were shown in the medical or surgical parts of the workhouse, it was much the same as staying in hospital today and certainly would not have any real stigma attached to it, at least among their neighbours. Also the role and ethos of the workhouse changed considerably in the second half of the nineteenth century, as society in general became more benevolent. That is not to say that the workhouse was a fun place to be, but it wasn't as bad as it had been in the time that Charles Dickens wrote about it in Oliver Twist. Lots more about the Liverpool workhouses here.
* Immigrant is not technically the correct description as, from 1800, Ireland was part of the United Kingdom, and so Irish incomers were merely moving from one part to another part of the same country, much as a Yorkshireman might move to London.
Thank you so very much for…
Thank you so very much for taking the time to give a detailed reply. I have learned much from it and it helps me just gain a better background to 'life.'
Ellen McGrady (nee Shevlin) originally came from Poyntzpass on the Armagh / Down borders. Her husband Stephen came from Newry, Hibernian just down the road. I've tried finding more about this from the Poyntzpass historical group and they kindly searched the Graveyard at the Catholic Church - sadly nothing. I have so many Mary's, James and Brown's in the family I thought an Ellen Shevlin, daughter of Alexander Shevlin would have stood me a chance! Ha! The trickiest line to date!
Thank you once again - I really appreciate it and I'll read up on the Workhouse information. The writing is so hard to decipher on the old records but I'd like to understand more about the different 'rooms' etc.
Best regards
Mx
Welcome to the forum! I…
Welcome to the forum! I believe Andy has covered most of the points you raised, however if there is any further clarification we can help with don't hesitate to ask.
Thank you Mary. Andy has…
Thank you Mary. Andy has been most kind and I have learned much!
Quick Q - in and around 1857 was it illegal not to officially register a birth? My Ellen McGrady (also seen as Grady, McCready, McGready, Macgreedy....!) was born 1857, the 4th born out of wedlock. She does register the birth of the others , although on 2, the birth date is different to the baptism records birth date. I have found out this is most likely because a fee was incurred if you registered a child 3 months after it's birth. There are some late registrations (not 3 months but getting close) So I have thought that maybe she amended the birth date to avoid any hint of fees. Albeit taking the Church records with a loose pinch of salt, it was definitely the case of changed dates as on one occasion the child is baptised about 8 weeks before the birth record on the actual registration cert!
However. Though I can find Ellen's baptism (29 March 1857 St Augustine) and this states she was born on 23 March 1857 (though who knows given the date amendments with the others!) I have yet to find her registration on GRO! I've tried most combinations of her (un)'married' name Kennedy and her name at the time McGrady and even her MMN!
Could she have not registered Ellen officially?
Thank you all so much
Mx
Hope this helps, Early civil…
Hope this helps,
Early civil registration | The National Archives
Bertie, Thanks for the link…
Bertie,
Thanks for the link to the Audrey Collins talk on registration. Especially the bit where she says: "[From 1837] Registration was compulsory. The difference that was made by the 1874 Act was that by that Act the onus was put on the parents or the person registering the birth. Prior to that the onus was on the registrar to get the information." I must admit that while I knew that it was the Registrar's responsibility, I was also under the common misconception that registration of births was somehow not compulsory in that early period. Now I know.
Hope this helps, Early civil…
Hope this helps,
Early civil registration | The National Archives
Genuki,
"What a Certificate Contains
The information entered on a certificate was supplied by those applying for it. No data was verified, no ages checked for marriages, etc.
Birth Certificates: During the early years of registration many births were not registered because it was not compulsory and there was no penalty for failure to comply. This was especially true for children of illegitimate birth. In 1875, it became compulsory. There was a six week (42 days) time limit in which to register a birth. After six weeks and up to six months the birth could be registered on payment of a fine. After that time, with very few exceptions, a birth could not be registered. It was fairly common for parents to adjust the birth date to within 42 days. Also, as part of the 1875 changes, a mother, when reporting an illegitimate birth, could not name the father; he had to be present and consent to his name being entered."
I was under the impression…
I was under the impression that the registrar had to scurry round and find the parents of new born, register the birth and collect a charge, however, the snippet in the 1838 Liverpool Mercury suggests otherwise. The parent only had to seek out the registrar and it was free with in the time limit. At 7s 6d after the six weeks no wonder children went unregistered.
It's easy to see how the…
It's easy to see how the idea became established among family historians that it wasn't compulsory for parents to register a birth prior to 1857, when you see what the text of the 1836 Registration of Births, Marriages and Deaths Act actually said:
It was always my…
From all the research I've done with my family history I have found that illegitimate children were not treated any differently by the family. My Paternal Great Grandfather was born out of wedlock, cared for by his Grandmother and following her death his Aunts. His mother died when he was 20 and he had a relationship with the family she had following a marriage with another person. He went on to work as a clerk on the Railways and achieved a high level. A Maternal Great Grandfather became a highly respected - and head hunted - coachman to a local MP.
I have many instances of illegitimacy in the families I research, and certainly within those families they are counted in amongst the rest, and it would appear within society also. Baptisms, registrations etc. The only thing is that on their marriage certificates their fathers are always non-existent and dead.
Following on from Shelagh's…
Following on from Shelagh's comments, I suspect that as a good Catholic, Ellen Shevlin was much more likely to come under pressure from her priest to 'regularise' her marital condition, given that matrimony is an important Catholic sacrament. However the children born before the parents married would have not suffered any stigma was far as the church was concerned because they had been baptised.
Dear all. I actually feel…
Dear all.
I actually feel incredibly humbled by your time given to me. I am learning so much and am absolutely fascinated by the social backgrounds. I have had many conversations with myself surrounding my own tree lines - mostly Catholic's come to the City by 1850's, living in and around Scottie Rd usually in court / cellar housing with large families, large infant death rates and husband 'labourers' sometimes with the word 'Dock' in front!
I have discovered that *most* of these have married whilst way into pregnancies and this has gone against the 'stigma' one so often reads about. It almost appears 'the norm.' Yet I have wrestled with my conscience to accept this given, we read much about 'shunning' and 'cast out' and babies sent away etc. I wonder if this was a case of looking after your own and if the Registrar sometimes simply avoided certain areas or in the 1850's was over run with work in a population boom?
I find myself pondering the comfort perhaps found in knowing the Catholic Church could 'right it's wrongs.' Certainly this particular line had it tough as our Ellen McGrady nee Shevlin died at 29 in the Cholera outbreak of 1866. Ellen Kennedy nee McGrady, her daughter is 9 when this happens and is placed temporarily in the Workhouse with her sister who dies. She is the only surviving sibling.
Thank you all so incredibly much. I like to learn rather than simply seek black and white answers!
Mx